January
I wish what had happened had never happened. But there isn’t a family on the planet that will evade catastrophe or disaster. Out of these unexpected breaks, there will be new opportunities for creativity.
Small brown face, large white space.
Social constructs of gender are ever present at work. The hegemonic nature of higher education spaces forces those of different races and cultures to negotiate and compromise identity in order to ‘fit in’.
The benefit of not knowing.
The not-knowing position entails a general attitude or stance in which the therapist’s actions communicate an abundant, genuine curiosity. That is, the therapist’s actions and attitudes express a need to know more about what has been said, rather than convey preconceived opinions and expectations about the client, problem, or what must be changed.
Deseriderata – Words for Life.
Words for Life. Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. […]
Christmas on the Edge.
Christmas sets the centre on the edge;
The edge of town, the outhouse of the inn,
The fringe of empire, far from privilege
And power, on the edge and outer spin
Of turning worlds, a margin of small stars
That edge a galaxy itself light years
From some unguessed at cosmic origin.
Christmas sets the centre at the edge.
Clothing to hide behind
Have you ever felt – like not wanting to be you, unlike you. Not that you wanted to shrink or hide behind things, people objects and become invisible, but rather to not be there, to feel invisible, to wield yourself differently in order to see what was around you and might bring itself forward, what […]
Where to find therapists who understand our experiences of racism
I came across this useful article appropriate at this time, signposting to various bodies that provide therapy for black and ethnic minorities.
7 Life Affirming Lessons To Take Away From Lockdown
I came across this article (https://medium.com/stillpointspaces/7-life-affirming-lessons-to-take-away-from-lockdown-a64566a1f451) recently in which I think we can all find something to relate to.
The Addicts Shame
It is difficult to have compassion for people when presumed poor character is confused with the disease characteristics that undermine it. Compounding this is the common belief that people choose to become addicted, based on weakness, lack of will power and poor judgment. Again, looking beyond myth, science informs us that there is a genetic predisposition for addiction, as well as a range of environmental factors, especially those that occur in early childhood.
A delight in the misery of others?
There is no agreed definition of schadenfreude. Since ancient times, some scholars have condemned schadenfreude as malicious, while others have perceived it as morally neutral or even virtuous. Schadenfreude is an uncanny emotion that is difficult to assimilate. It can make you feel odd to experience pleasure when hearing about bad things happening to someone else.