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The Allure of ADHD: Identity, Legitimacy, and the Search for Meaning

In the 21st century, we are living through an unprecedented explosion of labels. A seemingly boundless array of diagnostic identities now saturates the cultural landscape, from anxiety disorders to neurodivergence. Among these, ADHD—Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder—has emerged as a particularly seductive label, not merely as a medical diagnosis but as a lifestyle, a cultural movement, and, increasingly, an identity.

The notion that “anyone who desires an ADHD diagnosis can receive it” provokes both reflection and unease. Is ADHD an over-extended category, capturing too many human eccentricities? Or is the hunger for this label a symptom of something deeper, something existential, that the label itself cannot truly satisfy?

A label like ADHD offers a sense of certainty in an otherwise chaotic world. We live in an age where traditional structures of meaning—religion, family, community—have fractured or disappeared. In their absence, diagnostic identities emerge as seductive replacements. To say “I have ADHD” is to find a place in a fragmented world, to explain one’s struggles, quirks, and perceived failures in a vocabulary that feels external and scientific. It is to borrow the language of medicine to narrate one’s life story.

Yet herein lies a subtle danger. For many, the diagnosis of ADHD is less about genuine medical need than about legitimacy. It becomes a way of saying, “I am not lazy or scattered; I am misunderstood.” The diagnosis absolves and protects. It shields its adherents from the painful but liberating truths about their own agency: that life’s struggles are often messy and that meaning, far from being prescribed, must often be forged.

At its heart, ADHD—like all psychological constructs—is an abstraction. It exists not as a physical entity, like a broken bone or an inflamed organ, but as a constellation of behaviors interpreted through the lens of culture. What constitutes “inattention” or “hyperactivity” depends heavily on the society observing it. A child labeled ADHD in a Western classroom might be celebrated as inventive or free-spirited in another context.

This cultural relativity challenges the legitimacy of ADHD as a diagnosis. The boundaries of what counts as “disordered” are so elastic that they can encompass almost anyone who wishes to be included. As awareness campaigns and TikTok videos extol the quirks of ADHD—“You’re impulsive, creative, chaotic!”—the label risks becoming less a medical diagnosis and more an aspirational archetype. In this light, the diagnosis itself becomes problematic. If ADHD is infinitely elastic, its legitimacy wanes. It risks reducing the complexity of human personality to a checklist. Worse, it risks turning the human longing for understanding and self-acceptance into a medicalized commodity.

Despite its dubious scientific boundaries, ADHD has taken root in the soil of modern identity. Online communities flourish with memes, self-help guides, and confessional essays about what it means to “live with ADHD.” For many, the label offers a sense of belonging that transcends its clinical origins. But building an identity on a label as fluid as ADHD is like constructing a house on quicksand. It invites dependence on an external narrative, one that could shift or collapse at any moment. The risk is that people may cling to the label not because it reflects a deep truth but because it offers a convenient escape from harder, more ambiguous questions: Who am I? What drives me? Why do I struggle?

The allure of ADHD—and diagnoses like it—is not illegitimate. It speaks to a profound human need: the need to feel seen, understood, and accepted. But the answer to this longing does not lie in labels alone. A diagnosis can offer temporary clarity, but it cannot provide ultimate meaning.

True self-understanding requires confronting the parts of ourselves that resist easy categorization. It requires acknowledging that life’s difficulties often have no neat solution, that our identities are dynamic and complex, and that no diagnosis, however empowering, can capture the full richness of who we are. In a world awash with labels, it is tempting to seek refuge in them. But perhaps the greater challenge—and the greater freedom—lies in stepping beyond them. For while a diagnosis like ADHD may explain certain struggles, it should never define the soul.

The Pelicot Rape Trial: A Testament to Bravery in the Face of a Culture of Concealment

At the heart of the Pelicot rape trial is not just a story of injustice, but one of extraordinary courage. The woman at the center of this case—unshaken by the weight of public scrutiny—made a choice that few could endure: she allowed the hearing to be public. In doing so, she shattered the veil of silence that has long protected men accused of such crimes, refusing to let them operate in the shadows of a society that often shields them.

This was an act of defiance and clarity. In many cases of sexual violence, the burden falls overwhelmingly on the victim to protect their privacy, even at the cost of justice. But by stepping into the light, this woman redefined the narrative. She refused to allow her experience to be reduced to whispers behind closed doors or brushed aside by a culture too comfortable with secrecy. Her decision ensured that the men involved were seen for who they are—neither hidden by anonymity nor shielded by institutional protections.

Bravery as a Catalyst for Accountability

Her bravery serves as a reminder that the public exposure of such cases is not an act of spectacle but a necessary tool for accountability. It forced society to confront the humanity of the victim and the stark reality of the system that often minimizes or erases their suffering. By making the trial public, she dismantled the power of invisibility that enables so many perpetrators to evade accountability.

This act of courage extends beyond her own case; it sets a precedent. It reminds us that silence is complicity, and that to speak out—even when it feels like the whole world is against you—is to resist not just individual wrongs but the entire culture of misogyny that enables them.

Exposing the Culture of Concealment

The decision to make the trial public also forces us to confront the dynamics of power and secrecy that allow systemic injustices to thrive. Historically, the stories of survivors have been buried—hidden by institutions, dismissed by communities, or drowned out by narratives of male innocence. When hearings are closed, or when victims are silenced by the weight of shame or societal pressure, perpetrators are shielded from accountability.

But this trial has torn that shield away. It has exposed not just the actions of the men involved but also the societal structures that protect them. The public nature of the hearing means that the world is watching, and with that comes a demand for transparency and justice that cannot be ignored.

A Symbol of Resistance

Her decision is not just an act of personal bravery; it is an act of resistance against the forces of silence that uphold patriarchy. It is a declaration that the truth will not be hidden, no matter how uncomfortable or inconvenient it might be for those in power.

By making her story public, she has given voice to countless women who have been silenced and reminded the world that the fight for justice is not just a private battle—it is a collective one. Her courage inspires us to confront the uncomfortable truths that allow misogyny to persist, and it challenges us to create a culture where survivors are not shamed for their bravery but celebrated for it.

Her story reminds us that change does not come from hiding in the shadows. It comes from stepping into the light, even when it burns. And in doing so, she has become a beacon for those who refuse to be silenced.

Exploring the Oedipal Shadows in Apple TV’s Drama ‘Disclaimer’: A Psychotherapeutic Perspective

Ive had a period of time off work and have been binge watching a lot of TV, hence another review from a therapy perspective.

Apple TV’s drama Disclaimer, directed by Alfonso Cuarón and starring Cate Blanchett and Kevin Kline, dives into a labyrinthine psychological landscape that plays upon memory, guilt, and the stories we tell ourselves to survive. Set against the backdrop of a suspenseful, noir-inspired world, the story follows Catherine Ravenscroft (played by Blanchett), a successful investigative journalist who faces disturbing revelations when a book eerily similar to her own life and past traumas unexpectedly appears. This series unfolds like a psychoanalytic session, forcing Catherine—and the viewer—to confront the buried emotional forces that shape our lives and haunt our dreams.

Beneath the surface of Disclaimer’s thriller elements lies a powerful undercurrent of Oedipal tension, a theme rooted in Sigmund Freud’s early insights into the deep, often unconscious, familial ties that define our psyches. In particular, Disclaimer taps into the painful but universal experience of the Oedipus complex: the lingering, unresolved attachments to our parents that influence, haunt, and perhaps even entrap us throughout our lives. As we follow Catherine’s journey, the series provides a potent exploration of what it means to wrestle with the forces of family, fate, and self-concept—an internal battle that resonates with any viewer familiar with the emotional dynamics of psychotherapy.

The Oedipal Themes of Disclaimer: A Repressed Story

Freud’s Oedipus complex speaks to a primal, usually unconscious desire in children to possess the parent of the opposite sex and view the same-sex parent as a rival. While the classic Freudian model often emphasizes young children’s early-life attachments, Disclaimer takes a more nuanced, adult approach to this concept, where the “Oedipal” struggle is not with parental figures directly but with figures who echo parental roles and wield haunting psychological influence.

Catherine, though a respected figure in her professional life, becomes childlike and vulnerable as she reads the mysterious book—experiencing it as a powerful mirroring of her past. Kevin Kline’s character embodies the role of a “ghostly parent” in the narrative, an enigmatic figure from Catherine’s past who seems to hold a disturbing power over her present. Their dynamic illustrates an adult version of the Oedipal confrontation: Catherine’s challenge is not simply to escape from this shadowy figure’s influence but to contend with how deeply she has internalized aspects of him in her own psyche.

In therapy, this process is often described as working through “introjections,” the unconscious psychological absorption of figures who influenced us. As Catherine reads the disturbing story and feels exposed by it, the series subtly explores how we might carry internal versions of our early attachments (parental or otherwise) that can shape us without our awareness. These internalized figures, like ghosts of our early lives, continue to govern our self-concepts, behaviors, and emotions, long after the actual relationships are gone.

Trauma, Guilt, and the Unconscious Mind

Disclaimer presents Catherine’s repressed past not merely as a series of “events” to recall but as emotional material that has structured her identity and her way of perceiving the world. She is an emblematic character for any of us who have had to compartmentalize painful memories to get on with life. Her work as a journalist, investigating secrets and mysteries in the outside world, can be seen as an outward displacement of her own unresolved internal secrets. This resonates deeply with psychotherapy, where what we choose to see—and, crucially, what we choose to avoid—often becomes a central theme.

As in Freud’s model of the unconscious, Catherine’s defenses are mobilized against painful memories and feelings that she has long denied. The arrival of the book challenges these defenses, forcing her into a confrontation with parts of herself she has repressed. In a sense, she is both the child longing for closeness and the “prohibited” figure bearing unresolved guilt, mirroring the guilt and anxiety often associated with Oedipal conflicts.

The series, like many therapeutic journeys, suggests that healing requires bringing these shadowy, split-off parts of ourselves into the light. For Catherine, it is not only about “solving the mystery” but about encountering her own vulnerability and reclaiming parts of her story that she has avoided, perhaps for years. Disclaimer poignantly portrays this as a painful but ultimately transformative process, not unlike the process of therapy, where we learn to integrate these repressed memories and emotions into a coherent sense of self.

The Stories We Tell Ourselves: Memory as Narrative

Memory is not simply factual in Disclaimer; it is fluid, interpretive, and, at times, unreliable. Catherine’s attempts to reconcile her recollection of events with what is presented in the mysterious book reflect the psychotherapeutic notion that memory is often shaped as much by what we want to believe as by what actually happened. The act of storytelling becomes both a tool of self-preservation and self-betrayal—an attempt to create a coherent narrative that, in protecting us, also traps us.

In Disclaimer, Catherine’s journey shows us that our stories can liberate us when they reflect an honest grappling with the full range of our emotions and experiences. However, when used defensively, these narratives risk hiding deeper truths, protecting us from pain but also perpetuating it. Her discomfort with the book reflects this painful duality. The mystery uncovers that the boundaries we create between ourselves and others, between truth and memory, are as vulnerable as any defense.

In therapy, we learn that part of growth and healing involves rewriting our life stories with awareness and honesty, even when it means facing uncomfortable truths. Like Catherine, we are all called to move beyond the stories we initially crafted to survive and risk creating new ones that accommodate the complexities of our inner worlds.

Conclusion: Disclaimer as a Mirror of Self

In Disclaimer, Catherine’s journey is as much about solving an external mystery as it is about facing her own psyche. The show becomes a mirror, holding up questions that any of us might encounter on a therapeutic journey: What shadows of our early attachments haunt us? What parts of our stories remain hidden, and at what cost? And are we willing to confront the full, messy reality of who we are, rather than the curated versions we present to the world?

Much like psychotherapy, Disclaimer offers no easy resolutions. Instead, it invites viewers to reflect on their own unconscious material—the hidden influences and the unresolved emotional conflicts that shape our lives from the shadows. The series, in its subtle unfolding, underscores a profound truth of the therapeutic process: growth often begins with discomfort, and healing often begins with a willingness to embrace the parts of ourselves we least want to acknowledge.

Disclaimer is ultimately a study in how, to free ourselves from the prison of the past, we must face not only what happened to us but how we internalized it, how we chose to remember it, and how we might begin to tell ourselves a different, truer story. It is an invitation to enter our own “unwritten books,” guided not by the need to evade our shadows, but by the courage to integrate them.

Who alone suffers, suffers most in the mind.

Who alone suffers, suffers most in the mind.

These are the words of King Lear, from Shakespeare and are deeply relevant to the show Mr Loverman on the BBC.

Mr Loverman, adapted from Bernardine Evaristo’s 2013 novel, has quickly garnered attention for its nuanced exploration of race, sexuality, and intergenerational cultural identity. Set against the vibrant backdrop of London, the drama unpacks the life of Barrington Jedidiah Walker, a 70-something Caribbean man whose outwardly traditional life masks his decades-long romantic relationship with his childhood friend Morris. Through Barrington’s journey, Mr Loverman confronts themes that remain pressing in contemporary British society—homophobia, immigrant identity, and the complex ways in which masculinity is defined within Afro-Caribbean communities.

At its core, Mr Loverman addresses the social constraints of Caribbean masculinity. Barrington’s struggle to live openly as a gay man in a community that largely rejects non-heteronormative lifestyles highlights the cultural pressure many individuals face. His marriage to Carmel, though fraught with resentment and secrets, reflects the painful compromises often made to adhere to societal expectations. As Barrington navigates his relationship with Morris while upholding his responsibilities as a father and husband, the drama sensitively illustrates the impact of societal repression on personal identity.

Evaristo’s original novel, and the adaptation, emphasize how the generational divide exacerbates these tensions. Barrington’s daughters, part of a more progressive, multicultural Britain, serve as a contrast to his own internalized fears and anxieties. They represent a generation that is generally more accepting and openly supportive of LGBTQ+ rights, a stance that is deeply at odds with Barrington’s lived experience of homophobia and societal judgment. The interactions between Barrington, Carmel, and their daughters reflect the changes in social attitudes across generations and emphasize the importance of empathy and open-mindedness within families.

Politically, Mr Loverman addresses systemic issues that continue to affect Britain’s Black Caribbean community, such as racism, cultural stereotyping, and the lasting effects of colonialism. Barrington’s journey subtly critiques the British immigration system and the lack of acceptance many first-generation immigrants feel, both from British society and, at times, within their own communities. The character of Barrington himself embodies the tension between assimilation and cultural preservation. His background, like that of many immigrants from the Windrush generation, represents the shifting dynamics of what it means to be British in an increasingly multicultural society.

Further, by presenting an openly gay Black man who challenges both British and Caribbean cultural norms, Mr Lovermancan be seen as pushing the conversation forward about the inclusivity of LGBTQ+ rights within immigrant and diasporic communities. It indirectly raises questions about the impact of homophobic policies in former British colonies and how colonial legacies influence attitudes toward sexuality within those communities. Barrington’s experience thus becomes a reflection of broader colonial hangovers, questioning the systems that continue to stigmatize non-heteronormative relationships.

Mr Loverman is a powerful exploration of identity, love, and resilience. It succeeds in translating Evaristo’s complex themes into a visual narrative that resonates with a diverse audience. Its exploration of sexuality within the Afro-Caribbean diaspora is refreshing and groundbreaking, especially given the ongoing societal pressures that often silence these stories. The show does not shy away from addressing uncomfortable truths, and in doing so, it fosters empathy and understanding.

Ultimately, Mr Loverman is more than just a drama about a closeted gay man; it is a commentary on the ways we define and defend identity, and the courage it takes to be one’s true self in a world resistant to change. Through Barrington’s journey, the show highlights the need for acceptance and the importance of carving out spaces where all facets of identity—cultural, sexual, and personal—can coexist harmoniously. For audiences, it is a compelling reminder of the ways that societal progress often hinges on individual acts of bravery, love, and self-acceptance.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/m0023h93/mr-loverman

When bullies hide in plain sight.

In our minds, the figure of a bully is often crude and obvious—someone who pushes their way through life with overt aggression, unmistakably hostile and unkind. But reality often paints a more complex, troubling picture. Many bullies don’t operate in this glaringly visible way. Instead, they slip into the background, camouflaging their manipulations and emotional harm under the guise of high moral standing and polished ethical personas.
This dynamic is especially insidious because it relies on one of our deepest human instincts—the desire to trust and follow those who appear virtuous. We naturally assume that someone who claims to be ethical must be acting in good faith. And yet, this can be the very cloak behind which some of the most toxic forms of bullying are concealed.
Nowhere is this more evident than in the therapy world.
Therapists, by the very nature of their profession, project an aura of deep care, responsibility, and moral wisdom. After all, these are individuals we entrust with our most vulnerable thoughts and experiences. We want to believe in their goodness because, in a sense, our healing depends on it. And yet, even in this supposedly safe and sacred space, the potential for subtle emotional manipulation and harm exists.
With the growing number of therapeutic modalities—each with its own complex jargon, certifications, and supposed benefits—the therapeutic landscape has become more cluttered and confusing. Anyone with a polished website and well-chosen credentials can appear to be an authority in mental health. Yet, not all therapists, despite their appearance of competence, are equally trustworthy or beneficial.
Some may project an air of superiority, rigid in their views, convinced that their method is the only “correct” way of doing things. Others may subtly undermine their clients, positioning themselves as morally or intellectually superior. This can leave a client feeling diminished, doubting their own instincts, or feeling perpetually at fault for not “progressing” in their therapy as expected.
The key danger here is that the harm isn’t obvious. In fact, many clients may continue to attend sessions for years without realizing the subtle emotional bullying at play. The therapist hides behind the mask of authority, and the client, seeking help, may unknowingly submit to an unhealthy dynamic, feeling at fault for not improving.
Choosing a therapist, then, is more than just selecting someone with impressive training and credentials. It’s about assessing the subtle relational dynamics. Does the therapist foster genuine empathy, or do they quietly push their own agenda? Do they maintain humility, or do they position themselves as having all the answers? And most importantly, do they empower their clients or leave them feeling smaller and more dependent?
As therapy seekers, we must sharpen our ability to see beyond appearances. Credentials matter, but so does the feeling of being seen and heard, of working with someone who recognizes our autonomy and fosters genuine growth.
In a world where bullies can hide in plain sight, it is a radical act of self-care to choose relationships—therapeutic or otherwise—that genuinely uplift rather than subtly diminish. True healing, after all, can only happen in the presence of deep trust and authenticity.

https://aeon.co/essays/my-dismal-years-in-psychoanalysis-with-melanie-kleins-disciple

Empowering Women: Kamala Harris’ Inspiring Message Amidst Her Potential Run for the Democratic Party

In a landscape where women and minorities often find themselves marginalized, Kamala Harris stands as a beacon of hope and possibility. As the first female, Black, and South Asian Vice President of the United States, her journey is nothing short of historic. Her powerful declaration, “I may be the first, but I will not be the last,” resonates deeply, especially for women who have been overlooked, dismissed, or bullied in the workplace and in life.

Now, as speculation grows around her potential run for the Democratic Party’s nomination, Harris’s message takes on even greater significance.

Breaking Barriers and Shattering Ceilings

Kamala’s ascent to the Vice Presidency shattered multiple glass ceilings. In a society where women, particularly women of color, often face systemic barriers, her success is a testament to resilience and determination. For many, Kamala’s achievements symbolize that being the first to break into male-dominated and predominantly white spaces is possible, albeit challenging. Her potential presidential run serves as a reminder that these spaces are not just to be entered but to be transformed.

Women, especially women of color, frequently encounter biases that lead to being overlooked for promotions, dismissed in meetings, or even bullied for asserting their presence. Kamala’s journey reflects these struggles, but also the triumphs that come from perseverance. Her potential candidacy for the highest office in the land highlights the importance of resilience in the face of adversity. Each step forward is not just a personal victory but a collective one for all women who face similar battles.

Kamala’s statement about not being the last emphasizes legacy. It’s about more than personal achievement; it’s about paving the way for future generations. Her presence in the White House has already inspired countless young girls and women of color to dream bigger. A presidential run would further solidify her commitment to creating a more inclusive and representative political landscape. This is about ensuring that the doors she has opened remain open and that the pathways she has forged are walked by many more.

Kamala Harris’s rise to prominence underscores that every voice matters. For women who have felt silenced or sidelined, her story is a powerful affirmation that their experiences and aspirations are valid. Her potential presidential campaign could amplify this message on an even larger scale, championing the idea that leadership should reflect the diverse tapestry of America. It’s a call to action for all women to stand tall, speak up, and keep pushing forward, knowing that their contributions are essential to the nation’s progress.

Kamala Harris’s quote is more than an inspirational soundbite; it’s a mission statement. In the context of a potential run for the Democratic Party’s nomination, it takes on even greater weight. Her journey and her message are clear: every time a woman breaks a barrier, she paves the way for others. For women who have been overlooked, dismissed, or bullied, Kamala’s story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the importance of representation.

As Kamala Harris potentially prepares to step into an even more significant role on the national stage, her words remind us all that while being the first is challenging, it is also profoundly impactful. She may be the first, but she certainly will not be the last.

The Power of Ideas – an excerpt

The thing that gives people courage is ideas. And it is not only courage that comes from ideas; it is determination; it is the power to act, the power to go on acting coherently. For though it is true that most ideas are the rationalizations of feelings, that does not mean that feelings are more important in the world of action than ideas. Feeling provides the original supply of energy, but this supply of energy soon fails if the feelings are not rationalized. For the rationalization justifies the feelings and serves at the same time both as a substitute for feelings and as a stimulant for them when they are dormant. You cannot go on feeling violently all the time-the human organism does not allow of it. But an idea persists; once you have persuaded yourself of its truth, an idea justifies the continuance in cold blood of actions which emotion could only have dictated in the heat of the moment. Indeed it does more than justify actions and feelings; it imposes them. If you accept an idea as true, then it becomes your duty to act on it even in cold blood as a matter not of momentary feeling, but of enduring principle. It is even your duty to revive the emotion which was originally at the root of the idea—or rather the new and nobler emotion which, thanks to the idea, has taken the place of the root feeling from which the idea started.

Aldous Huxley.

Jazzzzzzzzzz

Jazz in Japan has a rich and fascinating history, reflecting a unique blend of Western influences and Japanese cultural elements. The journey of jazz to the Land of the Rising Sun began in the early 20th century, but it truly took root after World War II, evolving into a distinct genre that continues to thrive today.

Jazz first made its way to Japan in the 1920s, introduced through recordings and performances by American musicians. This period saw the emergence of dance halls and nightclubs in cities like Tokyo and Osaka, where jazz was often performed. The genre initially captivated the Japanese audience with its lively rhythms and improvisational style, a stark contrast to the traditional music of Japan. However, the 1930s brought political turbulence, and the rise of nationalism led to a temporary decline in jazz’s popularity. The government, viewing jazz as a symbol of Western decadence, imposed restrictions on its performance.

The end of World War II marked a significant turning point for jazz in Japan. The presence of American troops during the Allied occupation brought with it a resurgence of Western culture, including jazz. American military bases hosted jazz performances, and Japanese musicians began to learn and play alongside their American counterparts. This period also saw the establishment of jazz cafes, known as “jazu kissa,” where enthusiasts could listen to the latest jazz records. These cafes played a crucial role in popularizing the genre and nurturing a new generation of Japanese jazz musicians.

By the 1960s, Japanese jazz had begun to develop its own identity. Influenced by American jazz giants like John Coltrane and Miles Davis, Japanese musicians started experimenting and incorporating traditional Japanese music elements into their compositions. Artists such as Sadao Watanabe and Toshiko Akiyoshi gained international acclaim, demonstrating the versatility and depth of Japanese jazz. The 1970s and 1980s saw further diversification, with the rise of jazz fusion and the incorporation of electronic instruments. Japanese jazz festivals, such as the Mount Fuji Jazz Festival, became major events, attracting global attention and showcasing both domestic and international talent.

Today, Japanese jazz remains vibrant and innovative. Modern artists continue to push boundaries, blending jazz with various genres, from classical to electronic music. The scene is supported by a dedicated fan base, numerous live venues, and a wealth of educational programs that ensure the genre’s ongoing evolution.

Japanese jazz’s journey from a foreign import to a dynamic and integral part of the country’s musical landscape illustrates the power of cultural exchange and adaptation. It stands as a testament to Japan’s ability to embrace and transform global influences into something uniquely its own.

For a taste of Japanese jazz, you can listen to “Minoru Muraoka – The Positive and the Negative”

Held hostage by the Dopamine Cartels: BigTech’s feast and the remaining void

Held hostage by the Dopamine Cartels:
BigTech’s feast and the remaining void

We live in a time where, for many, the allure – or should we say score – of the next swipe, like, or share is just a flick of the thumb away, we’ve unwittingly become the leads in a ‘structured reality show’ remake of The Matrix ([1999]. Our director? Algorithms with a perversion for human psychology, intent on turning us into the very essence of what we consume: a series of endless, augmented human adverts and mind-numbing distractions. Ted Gioia’s, soberingly insightful and terrifying exploration of the “State of the Culture, 2024” unveils a society teetering on the brink of a post-art, post-entertainment apocalypse.

To summarise, Ted Gioia’s central hypothesis is that our culture is transitioning from a focus on, and means of expression by, traditional arts and entertainment to a post-entertainment society dominated by distractions and superficial engagements. The shift, he suggests, is driven by technology platforms that exploit our brain’s dopamine responses, leading to addiction rather than genuine cultural enrichment. As a result, we’re moving towards a future where constant, short-lived stimuli replace meaningful artistic expression, leaving in its wake a society of digital addicts.

Once upon a time, art and entertainment served as our windows to the soul, mediums through which we could explore the depths of human emotion and connection. Fast forward to 2024, and the landscape has morphed into a bizarre bazaar of distractions, where the art of conversation has been reduced to exchanging memes, and Coleridge’s verse, Woolf’s prose, or, even Dylan’s lyrics are about as enticing as last year’s tax returns to our brains when they’ve become big-tech-dopamine-lab-rats. Gioia’s observations aren’t just a wake-up call; they’re an alarm blaring in the void of our collective consciousness, begging us to reconsider our insatiable addiction to…well, vacuous nonsense.

But here’s the problem: as we navigate this brave new world, we’re witnessing a curious phenomenon. The very language of psychotherapy—once a lexicon mostly reserved, appropriately, for the therapy room— has been appropriated, diluted, and repackaged as bite-sized pseudo-therapeutic affirmations served up between TikTok dances and OOTDs. Where influencers casually declare everyday difficulties or embarrassments as “trauma” that leave them with (undiagnosed) “PTSD”, sandwiched between sponsored posts for weight loss tea and a luxury watch. The irony? The commodification of mental health discourse has created an echo chamber of superficial validation, distancing us further from the genuine introspection and the healing we desperately seek. Not to mention the linguistic slippage: the dissonance and growing distance between ‘sign’ and ‘signifier’. How can we communicate our feelings and become less of a stranger to ourselves when the very language that was used and created to express and communicate our inner selves acutely has become so diluted it no longer means those things?

Sometimes the absurdity of it all makes it more tempting to find humour than alarm. Picture this: A world where ‘therapy speak’ – if, indeed it hasn’t already, becomes so mainstream that we’re diagnosing our morning coffee with abandonment issues because it went cold. Which to be frank, is a more relatable and applicable situation to our own relationships than, an influencer sharing a tip for the post-yoga enlightenment they felt at a “stunning café that serves the best matcha-nut-oat-wahtever ”, which when you turn up is just a queue around the block of people stood in silence staring at phones – and when you get there, the coffee is cold, and the croissants stale #blessed.

Beneath the absurdity, however, lies a sobering truth. As we drift further from the “source” – genuine human connection and understanding—our collective mental health teeters on the edge of a virtual precipice. The appropriation of psychotherapeutic language by the very algorithms that ensnare us in the dopamine doom loop, makes hiring the proverbial fox to guard the henhouse look like a sound decision. It’s not just the Arts that are being swallowed whole by the insatiable beast of distraction; it’s our very ability to communicate, empathize, and connect on a deeply human level.

So, where do we go from here? What is the path forward? Language is a living thing, it evolves, as does technology, work and culture. However, until now this evolution has happened in a slow and inherently diplomatic way over decades, rather than delivered lightening-fast into our brains by a few oligopolies.

I do think most of us now look at our phones as a tool to speed up time, when we’re sad, overwhelmed, bored, lost. We can lose hours and indeed days, months, years. And speaking for myself it’s a deeply regrettable loss. And, most importantly, it never ‘feels’ like a choice.

So, perhaps we embrace the challenge laid before us by Gioia: to unplug, if only for a moment, and notice the trees. Or perhaps, to simply start noticing each other. When caught in the “dope loop”, and feeling more a stranger to ourselves than normal we should remind ourselves to, “touch grass” (as I believe the kids say?).

A permanent state of transition

Donald Winnicott, a prominent psychoanalyst, introduced the concept of transitional objects as a crucial aspect of early childhood development. These objects, often a teddy bear or a comforting blanket, serve as a bridge between a child’s self and the external world, providing a sense of security during the transitional phase of gaining independence. The transitional object acts as a tangible representation of the caregiver, aiding in the child’s exploration of autonomy.

In the realm of technology, our devices have become modern transitional objects. Smartphones, laptops, and other gadgets seamlessly blend virtual and real worlds, acting as bridges between our personal spaces and the vast digital landscape. Similar to a child’s teddy bear, these devices offer a sense of comfort and connection, becoming integral in our daily lives.

However, the parallel doesn’t end there. Winnicott emphasized the importance of the transitional object being an item of the child’s choosing. In the digital age, our relationship with technology mirrors this autonomy. We select and personalize our devices, apps, and online spaces, creating a digital environment that reflects our individuality.

Just as transitional objects assist in navigating the challenges of childhood, technology aids us in navigating the complexities of the modern world. It serves as a tool for communication, learning, and entertainment, becoming an extension of ourselves in the process. Yet, like any transitional object, the use of technology requires a healthy balance to prevent dependency and promote genuine human connections.

In essence, Winnicott’s concept of transitional objects sheds light on the psychological underpinnings of our relationship with technology. Acknowledging the parallels allows us to appreciate the significance of these digital tools in our lives while being mindful of maintaining a balanced and healthy integration of technology into our sense of self and society.